over come laziness. #1

 You already know who you are and that piece that piece that we're after lies somewhere beyond personality your needfor acceptance can make you invisible in this world You have to understand this next five-yearwindow is when you don't go practical and safe this is not the time to get thejob mom wanted you to this is not the time to try to maximize as much money soyou can buy a fat wip (Nice car) this is the time to realize that you have a five-yearwindow and it's three for some and eight for others but it is a five year windowfor you to attack the life that you want to win not because it's the secretbecause the world so zen because its fucking hard as shit out there.

 I want you to work on your mind get yourmind right all right you weren't around here whereabout but you got polo or swiss gear if you're shoe getting tight right if youlook good man listen to me don't worry about the external as much as you worryabout the internal. The mind is where it's at class is easy right what you've beendoing for the last 16 years is easy it's a fucking bullshit game it's structuredit's easy the world this thing this thing is hard however that contradictswhat I'm going to tell you right now which is it is the best and easiest fiveyears of your life because this is what you need to attack what you love andwhat you want to do here's why you don't have all the baggage you may havecollege loans respect it's hard as shit you may have the expectations of yourparents mentally hard fake hard you may have a lot of other things but this isexactly when you can live with four roommates in a basement and eat fastfood this is not when you've been married and you promised this is notwhen the world is sucked out all your dreams and hopes yet you still got thiswindow and yet so many of you are so hungry for short term short term gameslike maximizing the job that paid you $3,000 more but it's not as fun but youwant that $3,000 for what for what for new iPhones for what the biggest mistakes are the ones thatactually don't show up they're the mistakes of omission rather thancommission we've never lost that much money on any one investment but it's thethings that I knew enough to do that I didn't do Do you everget anything wrong what do you do to make a mistake? I get everythingwrong it's just that I can't recall it because once it's wrong I'm moving on tothe next thing like dwell dwelling on what you fuck up onis the quickest way for the next thing not to work You get to live life one time and this isthe time right now to understand what's actually happening and actually map yourbehavior to something that will impact you for the next 80 years so promise methat you understand that the land grab of happiness starts right now now you don't have to worry about getting that job what you should do is go and travel and learn go and start that business that you've always wantedhook up with those three teammates and start that band you've always wanted this is a time to be massively risk massively risk oriented I just don't give  about my mistakeseverybody else cares about your mistakes if you're worried about your ownmistakes you've already lost I know that this is when you'resupposed to grow up and go see the world but guess what the world isn't whatmommy and daddy told you the world is exactly going to be what its going to bewith or without the way you thought it was going to be a ton of shit is goingto change the world changes every goddamn day right now you need torecognize is you can afford to if you're lucky enough to be graduatingtoday with not a fucking idea of what you're going to do with your future nobody's everbeen luckier than you please recognize it if you did something wrongdon't let anybody take your mistake and use it against you even if it's amistake it belongs to you it's yours own it.

 Yes I did it throw it back in their face and don'tlet them take your mistakes your mistake it's a valuable tool for growth and forlife there's another kind of instinct that you need to lookout for it and this one is a liar this one is a saboteur well thisone is a back biter and like the devil himself he isshapeshifter he's going to disguise himself and make you think he got your best interest in mind don't be afraid to make mistakes it'sbetter than to do nothing and learn nothing and not evolve this is the instinct that says you'vehad enough This is the instinct that says you'vegiven it your best shot you can you can stand down you can backoff you can take a nap this is the instinct that says you canrest now DO NOT listen to that instincts do notlisten that instinct is a liar and wants to bring you down that that's theinstinct that's a a defense mechanism he wants to give you an out place to run to a little place of sympathy an amnesty a little place of amnesty whereeverything is forgiven where all these these failures can gather together andcomfort and drown their sorrows in lies and in deception your mistake is your greatestopportunity and if somebody is making fun of youbecause you made a mistake don't go down because of it if you say so what? totheir face if you say yes so what? it is my mistake not yoursyou have your own You had that third failure in a row didyou think I need to pack this in? Never why not?